One
of the worst things I experienced withdepression is
finally getting the courage to admit it to some of the people closest to me and
thinking that they would help but just being met with a look of almost
annoyance. Then met with ignorance and judgement and phrases like "what
have you got to be depressed about?" I was made to feel like being
depressed was an inconvenience to some people who should have been there, like
I was causing them a problem and I should just snap out of it and "get
happy". I thought depression was one of the worst feelings in the world,
but it's the reality that some of the closest people to you have only got time
for you when you're at your best. Fortunately there were some unexpected
friends who were there and it turned out one in particular was suffering too.
We have a pact that we tell each other stuff, we can be brutally honest with
each other and neither will judge the other. I'm so thankful for that. I dread those kinds of ignorant reactions. Almost makes me
want to go through with suicide just so they'll understand forever that this
condition is legitimate. I know exactly what you mean. People can be so
selfish and not think of how their reaction to something can affect the
sufferers.
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I always find that depression makes me worry about others more and I think one of the Unicorn Try My New Recipe They’re Called Shut The Fucupcakes Shirt to recovery is to actually be a little bit selfish. Learn to worry about yourself and do the things you need to do to help make you feel better, even if that does temporarily upset someone else. Hopefully they'll understand but if they can't or won't then you have to ask yourself are they worth bothering with. It sounds harsh but I've learned that negative people, no matter who they are sometimes need to be removed from your life in order to move forward. The last thing a depressed person needs is negativity and judgement. P.S Marcel, please don't ever do that. Without knowing you I can bet there's at least one person worth staying alive for that is probably worth more than the ones making you feel like that. X. Ive just given up on people. I have always been the, person people vent to and tell about any of their issues, but whenI need someone, noone is around. Its almost like a sick joke. I feel you there. I can't even explain how damn depressed I am. But I don't have the time to deal or vent. I'm just expected to smile and pretend all is good when my hearts broken in a billion pieces. The person that matters the most to me gets mad when I don't instantly get happy when he tries to cheer me up and gets mad then says what's the point you won't smile anyway. Making me feel worse. I'm so fucking pent up it's ridiculous with no outlet. Never have I been so alone and surrounded by nine people. It sucks. I want to run away I want to scream I want to cry. Yet I can't. I had that same things happen to me. Just there was the added insult that I was "depressed because Ido not have enough faith". Its unfair to expect others to understand what you are going through. Its not easy for anyone to understand the complexity of emotions that other person goes through. Like it or not depression is a lonely fight and you have to emerge a winner on your own. No one expects anyone who hasn't experienced it to fully understand. But what people can do is offer support, try not to judge, maybe even take time to educate themselves before they cast Vintage 90’s Hip Hop Looney Tunes Shirt. It's not helpful and if more people did that then it'd be a lot easier to talk about and perhaps the stigma attached to mental health problems would almost completely disappear. Upon explaining to someone I know that I'm dealing with depression and anxiety I was met with a reply of "You're not depressed, you're just negative. That's your real problem." So yeah, I feel you. Could not have said it better myself. It's sad, but many people only care about themselves and being around people who are positive. Whilst I try to be positive, it's so hard when every voice in my head tells me I am a bad person that doesn't deserve to be happy. I'm tired of people acting like I'm crazy and dumb. I mostly just pretend now. There is not one person in my life that I feel I can be real with or completely honest with and it slowly kills me every day. I am glad you have someone, Gemma. That's amazing. I pray you always do. When I posted my original comment never did I expect it to resignate with so many people. I'm partly glad it's made some 8645 T Shirt speak out but mostly sad so many people have experienced the same thing. Other people living in their perfect little bubbles can be right shits to others. As cliché as it is I just hope this little discussion on here has helped at least one of you, especially you, Marcel Wormsley . I'm not shy about my bouts of anxiety/depression, my husband used to say "in my family, we just get over it!". Now I'm doing better and he's having depression "I feel terrible all the time, don't you care?". Me: just, you know, "get over it". They don't understand till it's them. Thanks for sharing. I just described the feeling today as "being totally alone and waiting for someone to come and help and no one does". Marcel Wormsley I hate to say it, but there are so many people who are judgmental about suicide too. They see it as taking the "easy" way out, or that it's selfish, not realizing the level of pain, hopelessness and desperation that drives a person to that point.
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