Everyone
is so used to seeing airbrushed and surgically sculpted perfection they didn't
realize stretch marks and sagging skin happens to most women in varying
degrees. Hell, I've had stretch marks since I started puberty, I just drew the
genetic straw for them. I had one stretch mark
and I gained 60 lbs. People refuse to believe I have had kids. Some bodies just
bounce back better. It's absolutely nothing to be ashamed about. You just gave
a LIFE! Love your bodies ladies. It's all off putting....who wants to
ruin themselves just to have a child?
Until men give birth, I can see why the trend is for more and more women not having kids.
(And there are LOTS more reasons not to have kids) and no guarantees if you have them. I had our youngest child 8 years ago, and my belly still looks like a deflated balloon. A lot of men say they don't care, but they probably do, even subconsciously. I couldn't tell you the last time my bare belly was really looked at or touched since we had kids. I think about it a lot. But, we have healthy and beautiful children, I would never trade that for anything... not a perfect belly, not any price tag. I do care, I love my wife's belly. I love going to bed every night with my hand on it as I fall asleep. Because for 9 months, this is where she carried, nourished and protected our children. How, can I not love it as sacred as she is. Having a baby changes your body forever, even if you don't get stretch marks. I'm close to 30 years after having my babies and yes, I have stretch marks. The wrinkles go away after a while - a long while, it's stretched skin after all, can't exercise that away. But having started over at age 48, I found that many men don't care, and some like the softness of the skin. Those that do, well - I'm done trying to meet someone else's standards for me. Oh, and for all the guys who are saying "gross", I hope you don't have hair on your backs or butts. I'm pretty sure there is a lot of literature on the 'dark sides' of pregnancy, however, it still won't tell you how your body will react, and change in particular, and it's one thing you cannot know until you experience it. People who shame others for things they have no control over are terrible human beings.
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Stretch marks and other indications on your belly that
you have carried a new life into the world should always be considered
beautiful. ANYONE who demeans a woman for a belly like this after giving birth
should be smacked upside the head...including husbands!!! For those women who
have chosen not to have children, that is their choice and they should,
likewise, not be demeaned. This woman has taken up way too much time and energy
with this emotional terror campaign. No one gets to old age with a 20 year old
physique. It's up to her if she wants to bring life into the world, but don't
insult Fortnite Nike Shirt who do. I'm so pleased I had my babies in a time when no one saw
or cared what we looked like after birth, we were just amazing for doing it and
being good mums. Our husbands just chased us round cheerfully as I'm sure this
lady's partner will.
Let the young'uns have their perfect bodies, we have OUR CHILDREN. Ah, yes, the 'scone dough' effect... it's not so much the stretched skin that has bugged me all these years, as the havoc played with my abdominal muscles. Bearing a child will forever change you, and any one who has done so deserves immense respect! Given how out of control the population is getting, I don't think either stretch marks or the lack thereof should be a source of pride. Having no more than one child, however, should be.
Those having two or more children really ought to be ashamed, again, regardless of stretch marks or lack thereof. I was lucky that I only got 2 stretch marks, but I have a bright pink scar thanks to a necessary cesarean. I'm also lucky that my wonderful spouse thinks my scar is beautiful, especially after such a rough pregnancy.
On the flip side, my mom, who had 4 cesareans, did not have such a supportive partner, and I saw secondhand the toll judgement on a postpartum body. My beautiful, strong, amazing mother was reduced to her "big belly" by the one person who was supposed to protect her, and it has been a lifelong dent in her self esteem.
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Until men give birth, I can see why the trend is for more and more women not having kids.
(And there are LOTS more reasons not to have kids) and no guarantees if you have them. I had our youngest child 8 years ago, and my belly still looks like a deflated balloon. A lot of men say they don't care, but they probably do, even subconsciously. I couldn't tell you the last time my bare belly was really looked at or touched since we had kids. I think about it a lot. But, we have healthy and beautiful children, I would never trade that for anything... not a perfect belly, not any price tag. I do care, I love my wife's belly. I love going to bed every night with my hand on it as I fall asleep. Because for 9 months, this is where she carried, nourished and protected our children. How, can I not love it as sacred as she is. Having a baby changes your body forever, even if you don't get stretch marks. I'm close to 30 years after having my babies and yes, I have stretch marks. The wrinkles go away after a while - a long while, it's stretched skin after all, can't exercise that away. But having started over at age 48, I found that many men don't care, and some like the softness of the skin. Those that do, well - I'm done trying to meet someone else's standards for me. Oh, and for all the guys who are saying "gross", I hope you don't have hair on your backs or butts. I'm pretty sure there is a lot of literature on the 'dark sides' of pregnancy, however, it still won't tell you how your body will react, and change in particular, and it's one thing you cannot know until you experience it. People who shame others for things they have no control over are terrible human beings.
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Let the young'uns have their perfect bodies, we have OUR CHILDREN. Ah, yes, the 'scone dough' effect... it's not so much the stretched skin that has bugged me all these years, as the havoc played with my abdominal muscles. Bearing a child will forever change you, and any one who has done so deserves immense respect! Given how out of control the population is getting, I don't think either stretch marks or the lack thereof should be a source of pride. Having no more than one child, however, should be.
Those having two or more children really ought to be ashamed, again, regardless of stretch marks or lack thereof. I was lucky that I only got 2 stretch marks, but I have a bright pink scar thanks to a necessary cesarean. I'm also lucky that my wonderful spouse thinks my scar is beautiful, especially after such a rough pregnancy.
On the flip side, my mom, who had 4 cesareans, did not have such a supportive partner, and I saw secondhand the toll judgement on a postpartum body. My beautiful, strong, amazing mother was reduced to her "big belly" by the one person who was supposed to protect her, and it has been a lifelong dent in her self esteem.
Avaiable here: https://photoxtee.com/trending/rally-goose-t-shirt/
Postpartum bodies are beautiful. Scars, stretch marks, bellies, and gravity-enhanced boobs are signs of a strength of body and character that only comes from making toenails and ears and eyelashes within your own body.
See more: https://photoxtee.com/trending/jean-ralphio-wooorst-three-jean-moon-shirt/
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